okay the thing on globe

Is it okay to have way too many children with under-age girls and over age women and leave them to the care of the state?
Does breeding alone make you a 'father'?
Or is it the care of children that make you a father?

I have my opionons- lets hear yours.

(I think I know my readers here- but man it gets my goat when men think that 'sireying" ( is that a word?) makes them a father!

A father in my words is a man regardles of blood lines that cares for and raises 'his' children.