Gentlemen, this is one of the most important pieces of information in dealing with women over 40 ( if you want a relationship and do not hate women like my anonymous poster who yells all the time).
Okay, let us assume we have a mid-life woman who actually took care of the kids, the hubby, maybe she worked -maybe not.... but her 'job' was just a 'job' not a career.... her real career at the time was a 'mom... housewife... wife'.
Okay, now she is of a certain age-- and this does not matter if she is single and you want to date her- or she is still your lovely bride-- chances are very high she is going through this personal change.
The lovely lady feels she has given so much to the family, the kids (yes I know you have too- but this blog is to help you understand women to make better relationships for you in the future)okay- so she has given up her 'career' for the sake of the family,kids, husband- dog and cat--- what she wants now that she feels she has completed her 'contract' so to say-- is a bonus.... or to choose another contract.
She wants to have another 'career'...... maybe painting, maybe actually going back to school, maybe she wants to study Teetzie Flies ( sorry about the spelling).
What she wants is something to feel passionate about........(kinda like you do about the red mustang or new Harley- or whatever toy it is --I am giving you the benefit of the doubt here and not touching the subject of the blonde, the bikini, and the bike)
Okay- so to truly impress and or keep your own princess happy (sorry guys but if you don't think she is your princess- then you should leave. Little girls were brought up by daddies, mommies and grandparents- that thought their little girls were their princesses) Support your lady into following her next passion in life. Help her get to the branch she is wanting, encourage her to grow, have fun and feel alive again. So what if it is painting silly pictures in the livingroom, yoga at night, working at a coffee shop or helping out at a shelter---She has earned it and if you want a fabulous glowing women that thinks you are her hero----help her become the most that she thinks she can be!
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