Sex and the married life

This of course is a common thread- and I have wondered, discussed and pondered this problem for years so here goes!
Why is that folks who are married are scared to share their fantasies with their partners then complain of having no sex!
Okay I am going to let go here--
Men, if you have a premature ejaculation problem - take care of it before you bother your partner-- in addition, the back hair, improper 'down there grooming' and the huge belly is not attractive to us. Take some responsibility to groom yourself so you are attractive to us women.
I know- us women must make the effort as well- I am with you- but this is my blog and I am so sick of hearing overweight ungroomed men complain (I live in red neck Edmonton) so that should clear that up.
Now- armed with clean and shiny faces and other parts, meds for the 'dinky-do'--- nice smile, good attitude and some early morning flirting with your partner you just might get some!

Why not share your real fantasy with your partner- pretend you are having an affair with them arrange to meet for a lunch (yes- even take the afternoon off of work) meet them for lunch - and share you favorite wild fantasy. Many married folks are so afraid to actually share who they are with their partners but have no problem sharing with a prostitute or 'other'. This is done out of fear- fear of rejection.
Yet, interesting the most common fantasy is that of domination and submission- and or 'bondage'..... yup even your uptight little wife most likely deep down either wants to be tied up or wants to bend you over a bench and give your hairy behind a nice rap with a lovely little black whip!
More on this tomorrow-- but why not share with your partner? Go have an affair.