Tuesday, December 16, 2008

hey- just an idea

Maybe.... just maybe.... women are looking for a great guy to hang out with- then when they find good companionship they want an intimate relationship.
Maybe- most guys still just want casual sex- that is why so many men go for the younger women that still just want sex first and relationship second.
just an idea

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

wand how is this to your latest post of yours in regard to having several friends that are great hang out guys but are not hot enough for you, so no intimateness. or did they and still around for more? or maybe...they are in it for the intellectual stimulation? sorry, most guys want the casual sex, right. funny how it seems the word cougar comes to mind, along with your lavalife message, this and other women all seem to be, oh looking for the fun,sex. relationship afterwards.and still hungup on how physically attractive he/they are not? phhh

Chanel said...

anonymous- Like I have said before-if you read this blog- the situations here are not and only my own.....Also, if most guys only want casual sex- then they should go after the girls that offer casual sex- not hound the ones that don't. In addition if all a guy wants is sex- there are professionals for that- go hire one of those girls- Satisfaction guaranteed!
What is the definition of cougar to you? There seems to be so many of them--. At the very least it is a woman of a certain age that is interested in being sexy and having uncommitted sex- good for her-perhaps you should go hunting for your own cougar!
Sorry, anonymous- I am trying to follow your message and decipher as best I can- but honestly not making much sense.
Perhaps you could explain what you mean in the last 3 or 4 lines.
On a more interesting note- are you saying men just want fun and sex and are NOT interested in the attractiveness of such a playmate?
Interesting- and that should open up the 'playing field' for them!

Anonymous said...

for those guys who are ocnfused about why the end up just being friends:
http://www.laddertheory.com/