interesting comment

A recent comment stated that if a woman sees a man three times- she is a tease if she does not consider this a 'relationship'. Have we really slid that far apart from either sex?
Most women I know- and most men still consider the third 'date' as a look see- and consider it okay if you get to the third date.
For the record- comment-- please do not assume that all that is written here is first person--or even related to the same men in the rest of the article-- sometimes I just vent about a few issues at once--.
So having said that- there is something to say about the few gentlemen that still do understand that just because you 'of this middle-age' you still may wish to be treated like a lady- and they are willing to spoil, and pamper and become friends before they assume any other intentions. Also- there are still the ladies that prefer to simply have a fun good time- do not really wish to get to know you too well before and will 'hook up' with you on the first and for sure by the 3rd date- but that does not mean either that these women consider you a boyfriend.
It would seem not much has changed since college- there are the 'good girls' the fun girls- the guys that want to be players- and the good guys that want to get to know you and care about you before they consider 'going for it'.
Age does not seem to change all the good ol dating rules---
So- I guess the easiest way to make your way around this is to consider what sort of dater you are and what you are looking for.
first date- and hook up?
2nd coffee and hookup
or looking for the long term get to know each other and 'hook up' when it feels right...... not to worry you will find the right type of date for you as the other ones will simply fall by the wayside---maybe with a few parting shots- but they will fall by the wayside
Happy dating- and remember I am here for your questions and concerns!